Look, I get it. There is nothing fair or correct about the world we live in today. Every deck is stacked against us, from taxes to home prices, to minimum wage and to how our mother-in-law treats us. It’s all wrong.
The worst part is looking at our own body. We are not beautiful enough, we are not handsome enough and if we just had enough money to get the best plastic surgery, we would be fine. Why is that woman so beautiful and I can barely stand looking in the mirror? Why is that guy so cool and I can’t flex my muscles like that ever?
Why do I get rejected? Passed over for promotion? Make less money than (fill in the blank)?
Please stop blaming successful / good-looking / beautiful people for the unfairness of the world and for the unfairness of your beauty, or lack of… Understand that the world produced what it did and your hate won’t change it, improve it, make it better. Your place in life may be where you landed, but it doesn’t have to be where you end your life.
Give into the idea that love and inclusiveness is the only way to make this world better. Hurling hate on the internet and at traffic lights will not give you a better outcome. It will harm you, it will make you a worst person. It is up to you to bring a message of love and admiration. Aren’t you happy when someone is wildly successful? Or does it just bring thoughts of your own lack? If so, if you can only realize your own lack, then you must fix your way of thinking.
Begin thinking in a way that makes you the winner. There are thousands of books and websites that can show you how to do this.
In the meantime, quit hating. Successful people should not be blamed for their success. You can’t blame a man for being handsome, or a woman for being beautiful. Get the hate thoughts out of your head. If you can’t switch it up to love, then switch it up to neutral, indifference. You don’t care. Let it go.
In the meantime, start loving. Start with yourself first, be yourself’s best friend and admirer. Tell yourself dazzling stories about you! Find your fault line and push it, so that you can authenticate the you that you are. Of all the universe’s that you exist in, the you that you are is the best you.
If you give some love away, you will be surprised how fast it will come back to you. Hate does the same thing. Don’t you want love coming back at you rather than hate?
Quit blaming the more fortunate for the unfortunate hand that you were dealt. Yes, you have reason to be disappointed, angry and hurt. This didn’t happen because of others’ success, it happened for whatever reason that it happened. It’s a moment in time and it will pass.
In the meantime, you have what you have, find the philosophical shrug and deal with it. And, for “cryin’ out loud” give love and watch it multiply back at you.
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