by johannasr2 | Dec 24, 2025 | Clarity, Communication, Love, Relationships
1. Don’t give someone a gift that you want. 2. Don’t give someone an 11.99 candle from Ross and then brag about your 500-dollar shoes. 3. Don’t give a gift just so that you can go shopping, if you want to shop then shop. Leave your giftee out of it. 4. Don’t buy an...
by johannasr2 | Nov 28, 2025 | Clarity, Communication, Family, Relationships, Response to Trauma
Again, I’ve been watching this behavior all of my life and want to give good examples to help people identify when gaslighting is happening in their life. Let’s say you have a happy couple and they have a couple of children together. The wife is constantly complaining...
by johannasr2 | Nov 20, 2025 | Addiction, Change, Childhood Abuse, Family, Parenting, Parenting Adults
Recently, my son sent his daughter a meme that showed a daughter being sad because her addict dad died while and when she was still angry with him for abandoning her. This is a key feature of addiction; children always feel abandoned by the addict parent and try to...
by johannasr2 | Oct 26, 2025 | Change, Health Care, Insurance in America, Poverty;, Socialism
Think about Health Care in America and easily you will see that it is completely socialized. Who is sick? The elderly, the disabled and the poor. What insurance do they have? Medicare and Medicaid or nothing. Only healthy people are insured by insurance “companies”....
by johannasr2 | Sep 18, 2025 | Change, Communication, Education, Love, Sexuality
I didn’t realize that so many young women have no idea how to treat their own sexuality. I thought it was either organic or by osmosis. I grew up with books like the Hite Report by Shere Hite. There are not as many good sex books in the national consciousness as I...